How to teach your pup to look up to for direction
November 23, 2022
Your bond with your pup is so important.
This is the attachment relationship between you and your pup and is essential in creating safety and security for your pup. When you have a strong bond, your pup looks to you for direction and stays close to you. This makes every aspect of training so much easier as your pup WANTS to pay attention to you.
Many behavioural issues stem from poorly established bonds between the pup and mentor, so it’s worth putting in the time and effort to establish and maintain a sound, loving relationship.
For example, recall is a very good test of your bond with your pup - a well bonded pup will be much easier to recall!
Some easy ways to build a strong bond with your pup include:
One of the quickest and simplest ways to start building a trusting bond with your pup, is by teaching a Bond Gaze. This is when your pup looks up to your eyes, looking to you for direction.
Don’t underestimate the importance of this simple activity!
A bond gaze will activate oxytocin in both you and your pup, as well as stimulating dopamine (and other reward hormones). It is a rewarding, pleasurable activity and by encouraging the release of oxytocin in your pup’s brain when they look at you, you are teaching your pup to love you and bond with you.
The reason this is so important and an effective training aid is that it:
Once you’ve taught your pup this technique, it will begin to happen voluntarily.
You will love the effects of this training and how quickly it develops the bond in both of you - gazing into each other's eyes is a great oxytocin producer!
Building a strong bond to last a lifetime with your pup is the foundation of my Virtual Puppy School. With my signature training techniques, you’ll teach your pup to bond tightly with you, focus on you and look to you for direction - this makes every other aspect of training so much easier!
We cover everything you need to know to raise and train your pup, lovingly.